I took
Mish Mash (Michelle Wooderson's) advice and took one day off a month for a whole year.
She mentioned adding all of the days in your calendar now so that you won't back out later--GREAT idea. My first "ME" day was last Friday. I actually spent this day with J. It was really nice. Next month I have a spa day planned. I'm excited about that since I need a facial in the worst way.
I figure this will give me an opportunity to finish all of the projects I have piling up in the basement.
If you're interested in the "12 days of me" check out Michelle Wooderson's blog. She's selling a pocket book-type journal on her etsy shop.